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If you’ve been recently dumped by your girlfriend, you’re probably feeling terrible right about now. You’re not eating, you’re not sleeping because you’re too anxious from thinking about her, and you can’t concentrate because you’re constantly trying to think out how you could have fixed the relationship and where it went wrong. Am I on target here?

Here’s the thing, I get this because I’ve been there myself. I know where you are coming from, and I know that all you want is to figure out how to get back with your ex girlfriend. You still love her, and you need her back, and its consuming you. So how can you get started down the path to getting her back?

1. Don’t call her. You’re most likely not in a reasonable head space to talk to her without saying something dumb due to rampant emotions, and sobbing like a child or begging her to come back is not going to make her see you as a proper life partner. Desperation is not a good look for anybody. The other good aspect to this is that she will begin to remember all the ways that you were there for her when you were together, and that no one gets her the way that you do.

2. Create the kind of lifestyle that she would be willing to be a part of. If you sit in your room and cry, you’ll appear to be pathetic. At the other end of the spectrum, if you go out and start dating randoms, she’ll think you’re a jerk and be happy that she’s not dating you. Instead, go out with your friends, enjoy yourself, flirt a bit, and just generally be the sort of guy that women love. The point is that she should be questioning why you’re not spending all of your time crying over her, and realize that she doesn’t want anybody else dating you before she gets you back.

If you find yourself saying “I want my ex girlfriend back” after the relationship has ended, then you owe it to yourself and your relationship to give these tips a opportunity. If you need more advice on how to get your ex girlfriend back, be sure to click through the link in this post.